Submission : It ain’t for everybody…

Most women cringe at the word submission or submissive.. And that is fine.. But I don’t, it’s actually apart of who it is I want to be for my Ultimate Bae (Future Husband)..

Submitting to your husband is simply saying with your actions that you trust his decision is best for you and him as a unit.. Being able to submit is based on trust.. If you can NOT trust your man you will never submit to him.. What a lot of women don’t understand is that you don’t have to always have it together, you don’t need to know all the answers or figure it out on your own, in marriage especially.. That’s where your teammate comes into play.. You sometimes have to allow him to try things his way first and if it doesn’t work you make your play and see if your team wins.. Men serve the role as the leader and as his lady it’s ok to stand by him in his decision making.. What men have to understand is this, though a woman wants to be a submissive wife doesn’t mean your worthy of her.. A submissive woman brings far more peace and blessings to the table thn you can imagine and if you as man aren’t indeed a man she will pick up on that and move along..

Two years ago I found myself going through a transitional stage in life where I was trying to find myself.. And I found myself infatuated with Love.. I wanted to understand it better and I wanted to exude that nothing but love… With that I became really devoted to who it was I wanted to ultimately be in life.. That is a submissive wife and a good mother .. At that time I’d studied what submissive meant, I studied what love really was, I studied what a good woman was.. The bible played a huge part in my studies but so did people watching… I studied Proverbs 31 about the virtuous woman.. And Titus 2:1-15 on how we teach our children the right way.. 1 Peter 3:1-7 which tells women to submit to their husbands and also tells men to be worthy! .. I seen how unresponsive women are to men who aren’t good leaders and how great women are to men who are indeed worth every submissive bone in her body.. And after very careful self examination I figured out that’s what I wanted to be and I set forth effort to be that and not to accept a man who wasn’t worth my practice..Truthfully so you’re suppose to submit to your husband, however practicing is not a bad idea when you have a man worthy. I think that practice every here and there makes perfect for the real thing.. And it helps you grow as a person as well..

In finding myself I made myself aware of the principles of marriage and what it actually means to hit the status of wife.. And all things for me point to submission.. In being submissive there’s great strength, as women we are mouthy and we want to get our point across for the most part. So in making a decision to be submissive it means to break down all those barriers such as being unnecessarily mouthy to be better listeners and also better understanders of what it is our man try’s to tell us he needs from us.. It’s a simple life lesson listen better understand better..

Every woman won’t want to be submissive just as every man won’t be worthy of your practice.. But those who are I applaud your efforts and your strength…

And if you love me, let it be beautiful…. (Video Blog)

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1 John 4:18 ESV
[18] There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.

1 John 4:12 ESV
[12] No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

1 Corinthians 16:14 ESV
[14] Let all that you do be done in love.

Galatians 5:22-23 ESV
[22] But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, [23] gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

1 Timothy 1:5 ESV
[5] The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13 MSG
[1] If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. [2] If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing. [3-7] If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. [8-10] Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled. [11] When I was an infant at my mother’s breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good. [12] We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us! [13] But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.

I give a F…

Every where I turn or shall I say scroll?

I see or read somebody sayin how many fucks they do not give… It’s becoming more and more popular to walk around and lose all the fucksyou once gave. For those of you who don’t understand it I’m talking about people walking around not caring about anything. Or at least claiming not to.

You can really tell too. Men gives no fucks about how they treat women even if they have daughters. And women give no fucks about who they bring around their children. There are less kids graduating, less adults being real role models… All because we have decided to purposefully lose the fucks we once gave…

It’s is time to find them fucks though people. We have got to start caring more about what we do, who we are around, and other people period. Society has taught us… No

TRAINED

us to be selfish and careless individuals who won’t ever take the blame for what the consequences of our behavior is.. If we don’t get a hold of ourselves generation after generation will be lost because those before them never gave a fuck

Nobody gives a fuck until it’s too late and we cashing out on “Free ____” and “R.I.P_____” tshirts and hoodies… Let’s start at least giving a fuck about what matters… This post might not change much but I had to say it because unlike most people from my Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram …

I give a fuck..

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Don’t knock the hustle…

One day an old friend and I were doing some catching up. Talking laughing like we use to do back in the day. And I took notice to the fact that he always found a place to squeeze in conversation pertaining to working out or the gym… Not that I should go or that I need to go but about how much he loved it.. Hell after awhile he just stopped talking about whatever it was we were talking about and started to tell me that working out and getting bigger is all he thought about. It’s what he loved to do… He wanted to be this big ass strong man… I remember thinking at first “How is that going to make this dude any money? He tripping” and in that same minute I corrected my thought and said to myself “Don’t knock his hustle”…

I think that my friend was SO sincere about what it is he wanted to do. And he’s so brave for telling me because that’s a uncommon dream. People just don’t right out tell you their uncommon dream because some of us aren’t condition to dream let alone do it uncommonly! Most of our parents taught us to go to school get an education graduate from college so on and so forth.. I know for a fact dreaming wasn’t apart of my up bringing.. My mom wasn’t a dreamer she dealt in real life things… I remember telling her I wanted to be a singer, she shot me down.. She might as well had been the mother off of Sister Act Two “Singing doesn’t not put food on the table, singing does not pay the bills, singing is no guarantee to a future, even if you have got talent!” That’s not what she said but that’s surely what I heard in my head…

I’ve come to the conclusion that if there’s something you think about daily. Something you find yourself preparing for right now. Rather its being a doctor or it is being in the music industry, Do Not quit!… Don’t let people who have never even ever done it tell you that your way is wrong.. If you have envisioned yourself doing it trust God to get you too it because he will…

Stop looking at people sideways when they tell you what they want to do just because you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel… They do and you wouldn’t want numerous people telling you that what you want is bull shit… Don’t tell people the way that they are building their success is wrong or stupid because yours might not make sense to them either…

The next time we talk be it via email, twitter, comments, etc…Ask me what I want to do with my life… Don’t knock the hustle…