The definition of the term Loyal is :
giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.
“he remained loyal to the government”
synonyms: faithful, true, devoted; More
On a regular basis I see people questioning others loyalty or even claiming themselves to be loyal. All over social media and in their music or hear it in conversation…
To be honest it’s beginning to be annoying. I don’t care who you are at on point or another your loyalty to certain people or things will waver due to the curve balls that life sometimes throws your way… That failed friendship, relationship, job opportunity, class, etc didn’t workout because somewhere your allegiance or commitment wavered! And it may not have been solely all you as I stated before hand it can be the way life plays out… And then it may be solely because you dropped the ball for whatever reason… My point here is that
It’s getting annoying!
People will forever pick and choose what they want to commit to and if it’s not and/or your establishment, send them packing and move on. Because you too one day will have to walk away from something or someone you were once Loyal to…
That’s all I wanted to say lol
The other day I tweeted and said “I (can) but I can’t wait to be married”
And that is so true. I can wait because I never want to rush or not be ready for something that’s a life commitment… But I can’t because I think it’s just so beautiful for two people to give themselves to each other on a deeper level. To truly commit to living everyday for him, her and them.. Him being your husband ladies …. Her being ya wife fellas… And them being your family as whole y’all…
I desire that. I want that. Marriage is as much of a goal as this website blowing up and becoming avenues for everybody with a purpose to be connected to,for me… Some men may not understand this because you don’t usually tend to see marriage as a goal but merely part of life… Some women may feel me but then again a lot of you have let society desensitize you and take away one of the key points of your femininity which is your feelings, your emotions.. (That’s a whole nother post tho)
I desire to be an amazing God sent mans #1 fan, groupie, support system, masseuse, cook etc… All of thee above. And you can say it’s impossible or it’s not going to be all
Sugar and spice and everything nice
But I never said it was going to be and I never imagined it to be that way. Just like everything else it’s work. And that I understand, and it doesn’t make me want it any less…
I decided to make this a post verses tweeting it or making it a Facebook status. I felt that it would be a little excessive. If you agree great, lets talk about it.. If you don’t well hey lets still talk about that too…