A dream deffered

Last night while scrolling through my Instagram I stumbled across the Instagram of Kyona McGhee … A lot you don’t know who she is. And well I am about to tell you.. She is the owner of an amazing Christian ministry that produces clothing and more for young women across this world

Daughter of the King



I’ve been a very loyal supporter of this woman for years now. She didn’t start out with her ministry she started out with a dream of being a lawyer. She once had a website KimoraCochran.com where she’d report about legal matters of the world or celebrities. And even then I was tuned in…


Just recently something very amazing happened for Kyona. A true blessing from God. And she took it to YouTube to share with us all. I had the pleasure of viewing this last night and you’ll have the pleasure of viewing it now:



Zoe on top…

Scrolling through my Instagram today I’ve repeatedly seen this same video snippet that I love so much. From this amazing actress

Zoe Salanda

I decided to go to YouTube to find more of the video to get at least most of the conversation…

Here it is: http://youtu.be/C9m2luh8G_M

Tell me you don’t love her after watching this video… So real so raw. Something a lot of people especially women need to come to grips with

Tupac Shakur

When I was young I read a lot, wrote poetry… I would’ve been a totally different person had I not been expose to these things… I’m not saying I’m going to change the world, but I guarantee that I will spark the brain that will change the world..- Tupac Shakur

These are sound bites that one of my favorite rappers Wale used on 11-1-11 Theory. Taken from different interviews from a great rapper Tupac Shakur.. Growing up we I lived in a house divided, my older brother was for Michigan and I was For Michigan State. And when it came to music he made his choice Biggie and I made mine Tupac Shakur.

Here’s my disclaimer though Biggie was a great artist as well however I liked Tupac. I was extremely young I mean like 6 years old when he died. I followed his work though, from the music to the movies. To this day I can’t watch Juice without Bishop giving me chills… This part specifically is one of my favorite: http://youtu.be/Cj2hBPsoNpg

Poetic Justice weaseled it’s way into being one of my all time favorite movies to watch. Tupac a part as Lucky was phenomenal.

Once I graduated from Flint Southwestern Academy back in 2008 I paid small homage to Tupac legacy. With his hit I get Around being on of my favorite songs, when my name was called and it was my turn to grace the stage with my presence for my diploma I did the dance he did in the video ( lmbo)
Music video here: http://youtu.be/YqJAnQTwmJs

This man was a genius. He educated himself well on all issues and things that arise in our day to day lives that we ignore. His legacy will forever live on even though he’s went on. Every since I saw the Breakfast Club interview from June 24th 2014 with Angela Martinez and she spoken unreleased interview she has with him I’ve been listen to his interviews and music heavily. I even stumbled across this on Keke Palmers Instagram how Tupac felt about being a role model :http://instagram.com/p/pH94ypErg5/

Here are a few interviews I’ve listened to:

Part one: http://youtu.be/EsItj_NzbuI

Part two:http://youtu.be/ztqQyVonrUM


When a rich nigga want cha…

About a week or two ago a well known pastor was criticized for this:


Now this could be sort of weird to hear coming from the pulpit right? However the truth behind that statement we cannot deny. He could’ve possibly replaced Hoes with Girls. But his message was still well received and well balanced.

If anyone knows Pastor Jamal Bryant or have heard him speak I should say, they know his delivery is always very raw and extremely rare. He speaks to the congregation/ audience as if he is having a real deal conversation. His style of preaching will bring a younger demographic to a place of understanding Gods word as well as their purpose..

I’ve seen so many people say on social media

This is why I don’t do church..

And like my mother use to say to me all the time, Any excuse will do! … People don’t do church because they don’t want to. And if they are letting other people stop them from going thn frankly that is their own fault.

In my honest opinion, I did cringe a tad when he made the statement. However it’s definitely away to reach certain individuals. The individuals that aren’t necessarily “Churched” (raised in the church). Church isn’t just for people who are already there. It’s an out reach to get in tune with Jesus and the word of God. In order to reach those individuals you have to be able to meet them where they are in order to help them get to where you are. And that’s what I saw in that message along with his other messages as well. It was very relatable very down to earth but at the same time he went somewhere with the message in its entirety…

Watch the full sermon here:
Part 1 http://youtu.be/d1Mo5jALMWM

Part 2 http://youtu.be/wG_ES8bs2kc

In Honor of Fathers Day…. R.V Mickens

“… You showed me love was all you needed… Heaven couldn’t wait for you…”

I remember coming over every other weekend after my moms and pops split… My dad felt like he had to work overtime to provide for us. He worked hard too almost three jobs… He was the Original Julius from Everybody hates Chris

My dad would pick us up on Fridays at 6pm and he’d take us to our grandparents house. We’d love to go over there, our granny would bake for us, we’d play games and she was a retired school teacher so we played school even & our Papa would give us anything we wanted from food to shoes… We’d get money for our good report cards… They had this really big porch and on nice days sitting out there after we got ice cream or slurpees or going to the park….. I’d swing and slide while my older brother played basketball with the other boys. When I got bored I’d go find my papa, he’d be reading a newspaper and smoking his cigarettes. I’d sit by him and watch my brother play basketball….

We use to try to hide his cigarettes once we figured out they weren’t really any good for him. But he’d always either find them or buy more and the cycle would start all over again…

Papa wasn’t into going to church but he had a Holy Bible that you could tell was well read it was so torn up.. He believed in God. He never stopped my granny from going to church. Or from taking us along… He use to ask me about my dreams and what I wanted to be… Those dreams went from being a boxer to being a singer to wanting to help people… But he was down with them all! When I wanted to be a boxer he’d hold his hands up and let me practice my punches… When I wanted to be a singer he’d have my granny record us singing all type of songs just to play them back later …. And when I wanted to help people well…

Papa got secretly sick at some point. Him being the man he was he didn’t want to go to the doctor. Like a lot of men .. One day we went over and he got light headed and stumbled up the porch stairs… It seemed like I blinked my eye and he was in the hospital bed at Hurley with a catheter in his bald head it looked so painful and so uncomfortable. For the first time I seen my papa and he was not talking… That was the first time I saw my brother cry since we were kids and the first time I’d EVER seen my dad cry at ALL which made me all kinds of emotional…He had a brain aneurysm..He went from Hurley hospital to Mclaren Hospital… Still not responsive.. Then he went into a nursing home maybe mid or the end of January 2009….

February 2009 papa died… This was one of thee hardest things I’d ever encountered… He was one of the men who was a reminder as to what I need to look for in my future husband. He taught me to dream, he taught me to have standards… Hell he spoiled me… I always felt like there wasn’t men made like my grandfather anymore… He was a great provider, protector and he loved his family…

In Honor of Fathers Day coming I wanted to write something in memory of him… He played a very important part in my life. I learned a lot from him while he was here and even more in hind sight. I can only pray that whomever I spend the rest of my life with treats me how he treated his wife and family… I love you Papa… Rest in Peace R.V Mickens


Pineapple diet is you tryna eat?

So this gal is a true Vine sensation!
She impersonates Beyonce better than anyone I know!

But that’s not all she can sing… And she has a great song

Pineapple Diet

Check it ouuuuuttttt:

Love never felt so good…

People are always more valued once they are gone… That’s what’s


Say anyways. I feel like we all valued this mans music even when he was here. His ways were questioned and made light of from time to time but however his music has always been legendary.

Michael Jackson

Behind that name is such an amazing Legacy. Amazing producer Timberland has got some of the unheard music of his thrown some great current artist on it and created an album! How exciting is that? Michael Jackson’s music is so rare and so timeless, I personally am loving every song I’ve been hearing!

His hit record Love Never Felt So Good with Heartthrob Justin Timberlake now has a video! Check it out below: